Julie Benesh ~ Guest Preference Sheet

I pre­fer pick­les to naked cucumbers.
I pre­fer cats to kit­tens and kit­tens to children.
I pre­fer to sit near­est the door, though not for the rea­sons you might suspect.

I pre­fer the col­or fuch­sia to the num­ber seven.
I pre­fer sol­stices because they antic­i­pate equinoxes.
I pre­fer to treat the pesky symp­toms ver­sus the sub­tler causes.

Candor is prefer­able unless it risks hurt­ing anyone’s feelings.

I pre­fer to let my hair get a lit­tle dirty, to smell all the bet­ter once I wash it.
I pre­fer the savor of snark wrapped in an earnest pil­low of dumpling dough.
I pre­fer not to dis­tin­guish between lux­u­ry and necessity.
Je préfère blâmer la vic­time, car la vic­time, c’est moi.

I pre­fer the cer­tain­ty of uncer­tain­ty to the uncer­tain­ty of certainty.
I pre­fer my men as I pre­fer my cock­tails: free, yet crafti­ly curated.

I pre­fer love at first sight and oth­er self-ful­fill­ing prophecies—
the one-night stand that lasts fifty years.
I pre­fer not to write list poems or love poems, but that would mean no poems whatsoever.

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Julie Benesh is author of the poet­ry col­lec­tion Initial Conditions and the chap­book About Time. She has been pub­lished in Tin House, Another Chicago Magazine, Florida Review, and oth­er places, and received an Illinois Arts Council Grant. She holds an MFA from Warren Wilson College and a PhD in human and orga­ni­za­tion­al systems.