Mary Grimm ~ Mother Does Not Go Gentle

Under the pres­sure of age and ill­ness she lost her hap­pi­ness, drag­ging her­self from room to room, the house a prison now, hers and ours. One of us had to be there because she couldn’t do what she had always done. She couldn’t do so we had to but we could nev­er get it right.

In the night she got up to go to the bath­room, drag­ging her­self down the hall, and we lay, whichev­er of us was there, hear­ing each scrape of the walk­er, each mut­ter­ing, each lurch into the wall. She encour­aged her­self but it was a bit­ter encour­age­ment. Come on old Jo, she said. Come on, beat­ing the horse of her body that had let her down, that had weak­ened and bro­ken. We lay, rigid in our bed, lis­ten­ing until she was back in her room again, until she laid her­self down and looked for sleep.

(She said she heard a bird peck­ing away at the out­side of the house, peck­ing so fierce­ly that she was sure it would make its way in.)

In the old days she was quick and sure. She made a meat­loaf, slap­ping ketchup on it with red-stained hands. She mowed the lawn in her old­est clothes, rest­ing in the shade with a glass of lemon­ade when one sec­tion was done. She chivied our father into going for a walk after din­ner, down the curve of their road and onto the next and back around. She crit­i­cized our clothes and our hair in a way that made us feel irri­tat­ed and loved.

Now she was thin as a mon­key, her hands like claws. Her beau­ti­ful white hair lay flat against her head, tamed at last. The hall car­pet was flecked with lint, the refrig­er­a­tor clut­tered and stained. On the patio, the chairs where she and our father had rest­ed when the lawn mow­ing was done lay emp­ty under the sun, their cush­ions fad­ing to white.

(What is that noise, she’d ask, that ham­mer­ing. We told her they were build­ing a house on the oth­er side of the trees where there had been a black­ber­ry field, where she had picked berries like the coun­try girl she was once. And again she’d ask, what is that noise, that ham­mer­ing, not every day but some days, you could nev­er tell which.)

When the nurs­es came she was sweet and bid­d­a­ble, as if they were her daugh­ters, while we stood by, grace­less and clod­dish, the real daugh­ters who made her take her pills and who put things away on the wrong shelf. The nurs­es pro­nounced her charm­ing, and she was, call­ing up the rem­nants of her for­mer self. She was coquet­tish with the doc­tor, who we hat­ed for no good rea­son (he did his best, but in fact there was no best to be done.)

We were adults but some­where under­neath still eight and eleven and fif­teen, when she was a pow­er, a god­dess, the dis­penser of new shoes and books of fairy tales and extra mon­ey to get a hot fudge sun­dae on the way home from school. She sent us out to play in the rain in our under­wear so that we could love the cold and the wet and then the warmth of the tow­el rub­bing us dry in the hall, blades of grass stick­ing to our legs, our hair drip­ping down our necks. When we lay in bed then, the sight of her in the half-lit hall remind­ed us that we were safe, that morn­ing would come and take away the dark. We had to be grownup now but it was hard.

(She sat perched on the bar stool in the kitchen while we made her din­ner, each step of which we did not quite get right.)

We brought flow­ered sheets to the bed­room we slept in on alter­nat­ing nights, our child­hood bed­room. Cushions. A plant. As if these things would make any­thing bet­ter. We tried not to look into the mir­ror for fear we would see our young selves or that they would see us.

The last thing was that she fell, her bones crum­bling away, no mat­ter how many cal­ci­um pills she had tak­en, or pre­tend­ed to take, or had slipped into the trash when no one was look­ing. We came as quick as we could though it was snow­ing, our car get­ting stuck at the bot­tom of the dri­ve­way. We shov­eled and pushed to get it out of the way of the ambu­lance. She went to the hos­pi­tal and we were sure she’d come back, although she lay so flat on the bed it was as if there was no flesh to her, the blan­ket hard­ly raised.

At the last she was silent. Was she think­ing? We sat beside her, or crouched rather, for sit­ting was not close enough. We spoke to her although her eyes were closed. Her lips moved but there was no sound. Her hand moved over the turned-down sheet as it used to when she swept crumbs from the table­cloth, her fin­gers rasp­ing over the linen. We said things we hoped she’d remem­ber but was it pos­si­ble to remem­ber when you moved into that vast silence? We said them any­way. At the last, we crawled up on the bed beside her one more time as if she could com­fort us because she always had.

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Mary Grimm has had three books pub­lished, Left to Themselves, Transubstantiation, and Stealing Time. Her sto­ries have appeared in The New Yorker, Antioch Review, and Mississippi Review, as well as in a num­ber of jour­nals that pub­lish flash fic­tion, includ­ing Helen, The Citron Review, and Tiferet. Currently, she is work­ing on a series of cli­mate change novel­las set in past and future Cleveland.